Saturday, October 4, 2008

Filial

Most people find it hard to pronounce the word 'Filial'....Some people find it hard to be filial......The pronunciation key for the word is 'Fil-ee-uhl'......

I personally find it hard to define the word...or should I say categorise people under this word. Wify is one who brings the word to good name. Last night she was suggesting to catch a movie as its' been sometime since we last step into the theatre. However, when we reached home and notice my dad's health ain't that good.....She immediately called off the idea of the movie but instead we went NTUC to buy some stuffs for him instead.

No mention on the rest of the family members though but the understanding of wify on this matter touches me very much. Would most daughter-in-laws had done the same thing if they were in her shoes? Would those people had preferred to carry on lives within their own world, being chauffeured around in spite the other half's poor health condition, at the expense of the other half's career just to be by her side??

I hope not...I really hope not.....Anyway, have been rather disturbed by dad's health and yet have to put a strong front to everyone thus the going is tough on me...I get agitated at the very minor instance and its' like I'm worst than Hulk, practically any minor hiccup can get me turned green!! Thankfully wify being understanding, didn't flare up but instead comfort me to stay strong. I'll be fine....I'll be stronger mentally, physically so as to better myself for the future. Not just personal, my worklife is giving me some hell as I go through the ordeal which I went through last year again. I hate it when I have to go through this, in particular this time round things are really different. Scenario stays the same but the people taking on the roles had some minor changes, that makes it much more difficult than ever before. All these things are making me less vocal these days and kinda makes me have those short term memory thingy...I'll easily forget some important or non-important things said to me within the last 2 hour or so...Hopefully all things shall make a turn and I'll turn over the tide and enjoy the success and joy Liverpool is going through now....I'll carry on the spirit shared by the famous rock band, Beyond which is never to give up!

Talking about that, 2 of the members are in town this weekend to promote their concert on 8 Nov 08 and they'll be guests at the Superband final tomorrow which OF COURSE I'll be attending. Seeing them is secondary for tomorrow as I'll definitely be going to the concert, the primary role for me is to support 'San Yue'....I have no doubts they will emerge winner, I'm just being there tomorrow to witness it... Jia You~!

Love & Peace
Jiro

1 comment:

A Cryptic Note said...

Prayers goes to your dad, wishing that he gets better and healthier.

As for work, i believe my bro is strong and smart enough to overcome all ordeals to come.

U have our listening ears and support.